极品老妈第一季

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太喜欢Anne 了…虽然知道她已经40多了……女主老妈也看着眼熟，原来演过美国丽人…今年金球奖也看见她的采访了…0129更新:感觉这剧把美国人讲的对性好casual....god....看了这剧才知道我对两性关系还是相对传统的，或者说，我不喜欢这种对性那么随便，比如随便搞一夜情什么的…真的接受不了，和随便遇见的人搞，跟前夫搞… 之所以坚持下去…主要还是太喜欢Anna Farsi ....而且其中的一些梗还是挺好笑的，典型的Chuck Lorre 风格，看了这么多年，还是不厌。

我一定要大大的安利一发！！

真的真的真的太好看了！！！

好看到我一口气补完了前三季。

里面的人物有血有肉，笑点也很好笑。

也有很多人生的哲学道理。

喜欢到不行。

希望她们能一直更新下去！！

有时候也有观点碰撞和争辩。

不过因为这种沟通形式最大的益处是能够让自己不断审视自己的过往，用更平静的方式跟他人沟通，也可以说是自己建立了一个心理建设机制，让自己逐渐趋向好的一面。

不久的将来在大城市的我们也将步入陌生人社会，越来越会在人前伪装，而自己那些不堪的过去更加不愿意呈现在人前，其实我们也缺乏一些类似的“互助会”，这样的由陌生人组成的小团体可能更容易满足大家的心理建设需求，工作亦或者生活方面。

这个剧我是配合着 国产剧 虎妈猫爸 一起看的。

虎妈里的父母是传统上负责任，对孩子的前途 会花心思的父母。

老妈 里的父母 全都是问题父母，完全不在乎孩子的前途，随波逐流，爱咋砸。

导致里面的孩子长大后多少都有 父母给的遗留问题。

比如里面的厨子 提到他冷酷的父母让他不会爱了。

戒酒会有个胖女人因为酗酒和吸毒多次抛弃自己的儿子，导致他儿子得知她得了癌症也不想去看他，并且在此之前好多年都没和她联系过，她的老伴去世多年，所以她孤独的活了很多年，家里养了8只猫。

我估计这种事情，美国的现实中可能真有。

女主老妈酗酒，女主也酗酒。

女主早孕，女主女儿也早孕。

他们都被不好的事情绑架了，代代相传。

唯一比较好的是，虽然日子过的比较差，但女主这一家仍然彼此相爱。

现实中日子过的太差，由于父母不负责任导致儿女过的不好，恐怕反目成仇，恨父母的会占多数。

儿女是父母的复印品，父母身上的缺点很容易传给儿女，然后那个缺点绑架了儿女，他们不想这样却不得不这样，在这怪圈里打圈圈，这就是所谓的命运吧。

SO 如何打破这怪圈？

让改写家族的命运，让悲剧不要代代相传？

此剧还没看完，边看边写感悟。

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1.是我喜欢的且丧且治愈的类型，其实丧多于治愈，不过大家互帮互助，相互依偎的感觉很好。

2.原生家庭的影响真的很大，但是能怎么办呢，抱怨解决不了任何问题，只能move on。

3.清醒之后，生活并不会变好，只是变得清醒而已。

4.伤害过的人，做错的事都不会消失。

虽然大部分时候，我们是站在主角视角上，只是，偶尔显露的被主角伤害过的人，让人不免反思。

5.后期把主线从儿女调换成互助小组好评，女儿真的不讨人喜欢。

Bonnie, nothing changes if nothing changes. Just do one thing different and see what happens.Jill, you are in actions business. God is in the results business.If you always seek the validation of other people, you will never be content, because you're making them your higher power.If everyone I meet's an ass, maybe I'm the ass.Your bottom's when you decide to stop digging.Stop telling people how to live their lives, when you can't even figure out how to live your own life.Fake it till you make it. You learn how to do a job by doing the job.What works for me when I'm in doubt is to just do nothing...until I'm absolutely sure.For once in my life, finish something I started.That takes guts, takes character. Sorry, you don't get to take the easy way out.These words stick in my throat like a chicken bone. 如鲠在喉You got to suck it up and do your best.Psychologist: But sometimes all you can do is stay close, and let them find their own way.M: You just crossed the line, from feeling your feelings, to feeling sorry for yourselfM: Bonnie, just because you think it, doesn't mean you have to say it.C: I've turned into that obnoxious(令人讨厌的) sober person, who tells everybody how to live their life.Thanks, baby. You always bring me back down to earth.But you picked yourself up and...... start over. The program isn't just about meetings and bad coffee, you also have to do the work. You know, you have to dig down, try to discover the reasons you do what you do...--Jill, you've got a hole inside. You've had it your entire life. You tried to fill it with drugs and alcohol, sex...But there's nothing that you can buy or eat or sleep with that's gonna fix the real problem.--Well, all I know is I got to do something different because what I've been doing sure ain't working.--That's a good start.--Sweetie, I think if you have to ask the question, then you don't(love him). --But I really feel like I should. --Just because he's a thousand times better than anybody else you've ever dated doesn't mean he's the one.Because if you're stuck, you're a victim. There's power in making a choice.--Look, I don't have a lot going for me growing up, but winning people over was one of my strong suits. -- And I am sure it served you, but you don't need it anymore. Let me ask you something, Do you like yourself? 'Cause that's the only person you should be concerned about.