婚礼傲客

编剧导演无脑也就罢了，反正我们大多也不认识没听说过。

可气的是这么多优秀的演员，枉费了观众的喜爱——比如我是冲Owen Wilson找到的这个——不懂得挑挑剧本再接片吗！！！

是不是前面都没动脑子，到了首映式才知道整个故事是啥！

前面分明很不错的典型好莱坞式爱情喜剧，竟然越来越荒唐和拖沓，万劫不复地滑向了烂片的深渊。

虽然前面也不少节奏不对的地方，但是，男主被揭发、灰溜溜地离开人家的度假屋之后，冲到女主订婚宴上却压根没见着、只是被揍了一顿，这个场景就告结束——顿时，我彻底绝望了。

接着只剩下要看它能烂到何等地步……此时居然还在他和蹭婚同伙之间莫名其妙扯出一场号称旷日持久的矛盾？！！！

没道理，也没人会关心。

而且，全片扯进太多莫名其妙的人物后面却不加利用，等于铺了无数没用的线索。

原以为会用不检点的议员老婆做文章——比如，应该设计半夜Wilson溜到Rachael Adams门前犹豫片刻没进去，回来图中却撞见她，纠缠一番引发误会；黑人管家本可以发挥更有趣的作用，但只是在订婚宴时把男主带进后门就没戏份儿了；男2号对着神父叨叨了半天，神父光点头不说话的样子，应该后面发现他并非神父，或者根本听不到，或者不懂英语之类，没想到只是个多嘴告状的；女主的两个弟弟都像议员妻子一样，开头仿佛有用，后面不了了之，完全该删掉的人物。

更离奇的是结尾突然冒出一个新人物，很久以前被提到过，这时候出现本尊，可以好好做一番讽刺和升华，但是给他的戏份和出镜次数未免太多。

如果这时候安排他只出现在一场戏里效果就会好很多。

Wedding Crasher这种职业是否真的存在？

汗，爆强。

John和Jeremy应该都是在工作中小有成绩的白领。

从开头的离婚财产分割调节来看，两人应该是lawyer。

所以说口才应该是不成问题。

而Jeremy的那段贯口活也的确不简单。

才能把这么多人玩弄于股掌之中。

看看长长的The Rules of Wedding Crashing就知道，Wedding Crasher的资格认证也不是随便什么人就能拿的。

两个主人公就是骗人上床，再拍拍屁股走人的混蛋，真不明白为什么会有这么多人上当。

片子看上去好像是浪荡公子游历花花世界，然后找到真爱的故事。

bullshit，这样子找法，他把女人当什么，选妃吗？

先上了再说，合适就继续，不合适就拜拜。

son of bitch。

居然说的出it also led me to you so it's impossible for me to completely regret it.简直不要脸。

一直对私生活不检点的人很反感。

骂骂就算了。

日子还要过呀。

毕竟是comedy，没必要太计较。

还是觉得片子一般，不知道这么会有这么好的票房，也许是我落伍了吧。

我上次看科比最爱电影名单的时候，看到了闻名已久却一直没看的喜剧电影《婚礼傲客》，今天，有幸看过，觉得McAdams实在是太适合演这种清纯妞了，她在《Mean girl》里那头金毛造型实在憋足，难道她和Seyfried凑在一块就为了衬托Lohan那个傻妞？

那个名副其实的mean girl反而成为了受欺负的主角，演一个来自非洲的数学优等生，这种反串类似于让翠西·我报废了·麦克格雷迪去饰演刘玉栋...从贱女孩们绕回来，《傲客》虽然得承认很好看，但是导演在把握一个这么好的喜剧题材时居然也会出现那么多的幼稚处理，不免让人为之遗憾，毕竟这个有新意的题材无论放在哪个二流导演手里都能大卖，而要是有幸给了一个叙事稍微圆熟点的商业导演，都是能够成为喜剧经典的，可是《傲客》现在来看，仅限于喜剧热片的等级，如果不是沃恩和沃肯等戏精的气氛带动，和对财政部长一家子畸形的揶揄，恐怕《傲客》连卖座都够呛，要知道在大银幕看德州牛仔和加拿大女孩擦出火花是没什么太大噱头的，他们要看的是wedding crasher这个热门词汇是怎么被两个活宝诠释的，因为捧着爆米花的北美影迷们也迫不及待想在自己参加的婚礼或者是葬礼上跃跃欲试一把！

有意思的是，换做在中国的话，机会则更多！

婚礼，葬礼，寿宴，满月酒，升学宴，晋升宴，搬迁宴，拜师宴，癌症治好了宴，中国足球进一球宴，婚外恋成功抓现场分得不菲离婚财产宴，参加选秀海选晋级宴，被车撞到皮外伤成功讹到五位数宴，和某导演产生亲密关系传出绯闻宴...好了，这些礼宴够折腾一阵子了，看过《傲客》后，大家保重身（xia）体吧！

The Wedding Crashers，一出有血有肉的爱情喜剧。

婚礼总是讨巧的喜剧或浪漫题材，Four Weddings And A Funeral、My Best Friend's Wedding、My Big Fat Greek Wedding、The Wedding Singer等等。

每一部喜剧都有自己的特点，有的喜得无厘头，有的喜得意味深长，有的喜得天衣无缝。

那么这部The Wedding Crashers，介于三者之间。

粗口、低俗笑话、裸露必不可少，喜剧早已从卓别林式转变为American Pie式，不过该片不像前者那么瞎搞，毕竟两名主角的身份是律师而非高中学生。

非常喜欢开头。

Owen Wilson和Vince Vaughn扮演的律师John和Jeremy，让一对前来办理离婚财产协议并且争吵不断的夫妇回想约会时的美好，而这些美好回忆只是为了让他们可以心平气和地离婚。

John和Jeremy都不相信爱情。

特别是Jeremy的那段解释为何他不要relationship的台词，拗口、绝妙。

It's very difficult trying to read the situation，恐怕说出了不少人的心声。

I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that ass-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your ass sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair. 之后一段两人恶闯他人婚礼的片段，变幻交叉的画面仿佛幻灯片，节奏快速也符合婚礼的欢快气氛，并且意喻两人快进快出，参加完婚礼搞定某个女人后就从此消失。

影片同时也不乏优美镜头，在John和Claire不知不觉相恋时，用俯视的近景镜头来拍摄他们各自夜不能眠，处理得很好。

而财政部长Cleary一家的古怪在令人捧腹之余，也可以算是美国社会各种问题的缩影。

神经质的同性恋艺术家儿子Todd、暴力到歇斯底里的未婚夫Zack、性生活无法得到满足的母亲Kathleen、40岁还和和母亲同住的Crasher高手Chazz等等，总之，都很变态。

财政部长、父亲William的扮演者Christopher Walken，把部长的严肃、政治家的心机、父亲对于女儿的关怀都表现出来了。

此前他曾参演过Catch Me If You Can、Sleepy Hollow、Batman Returns、Pulp Fiction等很多影片，演技不容小觑。

配乐很好，而为讨女生欢心在婚礼上为小孩子做气球玩具、和小孩子一起跳交谊舞这样的桥段，也不失温馨。

沙滩、碧海、豪屋，一切浪漫欢喜的元素都齐备。

爱情、友情、亲情的情节架构，也都恰如其分，温和演绎。

So, relax yourself and crash the movie! And, i bet you will find fun in it.p.s.The Rules of Wedding CrashingRule #1: Never leave a fellow Crasher behind. Crashers take care of their own.Rule #2: Never use your real name.Rule #3: When crashing an Indian wedding, identify yourself as a well-known immigrant officer or a county lawyer.Rule #4: No one goes home alone.Rule #5: Never let a girl come between you and a fellow crasher.Rule #6: Do not sit in the corner and sulk. It draws attention in a negative way. Draw attention to yourself, but on your own terms.Rule #7: Blend in by standing out.Rule #8: Be the life of the party.Rule #9: Whatever it takes to get in, get in.Rule #10: Invitations are for pussies.Rule #11: Sensitive is good.Rule #12: When it stops being fun, break something.Rule #13: Bridesmaids are desperate: console them.Rule #14: You're a distant relative of a dead cousin.Rule #15: Fight the urge to tell the truth.Rule #16: Always have an up-to-date family tree.Rule #17: Every female wedding guest deserves a wedding night.Rule #18: You love animals and children.Rule #19: Toast in the native language if you know the native language and have practiced the toast. Do not wing it.Rule #20: The older the better, the younger the better (see Rule below)Rule #21: Definitely make sure she's 18.Rule #22: You have a wedding and a reception to seal the deal. Period. No overtime.Rule #23: There's nothing wrong with having seconds. Provided there's enough women to go around.Rule #24: If you get outed, leave calmly. Do not run.Rule #25: You understand she heard that but that's not what you meant.Rule #26: Of course you love her.Rule #27: Don't over drink. The machinery must work in order to close.Rule #28: Make sure there's an open bar.Rule #29: Always be a team player. Everyone needs a little help now and again.Rule #30: Know the playbook so you can call an audible.Rule #31: If you call an audible, always make sure your fellow Crashers know.Rule #32: Don't commit to a relative unless you're absolutely sure that they have a pulse.Rule #33: Never go back to your place.Rule #34: Be gone by sunrise.Rule #35: Breakfast is for closers.Rule #36: Your favorite movie is "The English Patient".Rule #37: At the reception, one hard drink or two beers max. A drunk crasher is a sloppy crasher.Rule #38: Girls in hats tend to be proper and rarely give it up.Rule #39: The way to a woman's bed is through the dance floor.Rule #40: Dance with old folks and the kids. The girls will think you're "sweet."Rule #41: Never hit on the bride -- it's a one way ticket to the pavementRule #42: Try not to break anything, unless you're not having fun.Rule #43: At the service, sit in the fifth row. It's close enough to wedding party to seem like you're an invited guest. Never sit in the back. The back row just smells like crashing.Rule #44: Create an air of mystery that involves some painful experience when interacting with the girl you're after. But don't talk about it.Rule #45: Always remember your fake name! Rehearse it in advance and make sure you know your fellow Crasher's code-name as well!Rule #46: The Rules of Wedding Crashing are sacred. Don't sully them by "improvising."Rule #47: You forgot your invitation in your rush to get to the church.Rule #48: Make sure all the single women at the wedding know you're there because you've just suffered either a terrible breakup or the death of your fiancée.Rule #49: Always work into the conversation: "Yeah, I have tons of money. But how does one buy happiness?"Rule #50: Be pensive! It draws out the "healer" in women.Rule #51: Always pull out in time.Rule #52: Tell any woman you're interested in that you'd love to stay put but you promised to help out at the homeless shelter today.Rule #53: It's time to put your Drama Lessons in practice! Get choked up during the service. The girls will think you're "sensitive". Bring a slice of onion or artificial tears if necessary.Rule #54: Avoid virgins. They're too clingy.Rule #55: If pressed, tell people you're related to Uncle John. Everyone has an Uncle John.Rule #56: Don't fixate on one woman. ALWAYS have a back-up.Rule #57: When seeing a rival Crasher, do not interact: merely acknowledge each other with a tug on the earlobe and gracefully move on.Rule #58: The Ferrari's in the shop.Rule #59: If two rival crashers pick the same girl, the crasher with the least seniority will respectfully yield.Rule #60: No "chicken dancing": no exceptions.Rule #61: When crashing out of state, request permission from the local Wedding Crasher chapter.Rule #62: No more than two weddings a weekend. More and your game gets sloppy. You'll also attract unwanted notice.Rule #63: Bring an extra umbrella when it rains. Courtesy opens more legs than charm.Rule #64: Always save room for cake.Rule #65: When your crash partner fails, you fail. No man is an island.Rule #66: Smile! You're having the time of your life.Rule #67: Mix it up a little. You can't always be the man with the haunted past.Rule #68: Dance with the Bride's grandmother.Rule #69: No sex on the altar. Confessionals, okay. Chair lofts, better.Rule #70: Two shutouts in a row? It's time to take a week off. Ask yourself: what is it that is getting in the way of my happiness?Rule #71: Research, research, research the wedding party. And when you are done researching, research some more.Rule #72: Studies have shown that women have a more developed sense of smell. Breath mints: small cost, big yield.Rule #73: Keep interactions with the parents of the bride and groom to a minimum.Rule #74: In case of emergency, refer to the rulebook.Rule #75: Girls in hats tend to be proper and rarely give it up.Rule #76: No excuses. Play like a champion.Rule #77: Carry extra protection at ALL times.Rule #78: The unmarried female rabbi: is she fair game? Of course she is.Rule #79: The tables furthest from the kitchen always get served first.Rule #80: Stop, look, listen. At weddings. In life.Rule #81: Occasionally bring a gift: you're getting sex without having to buy dinner, so you can afford a blender.Rule #82: Always think ahead but always stay in the moment. Reconcile this paradox and you'll not only get the girl, you might also get peace of mind.Rule #83: Don't let the ring bearer bum your smokes. His parents may start to ask questions.Rule #84: Stay clear of the wedding planner. They may recognize you and start to wonder.Rule #85: Don't use the "I have two months to live" bit: not cool, not effective.Rule #86: Shoes say a lot about the man.Rule #87: Always choose large weddings. More choice. Easier to blend.Rule #88: You're from out of town. ALWAYS.Rule #89: Know something about the place you say you are from, whether be from another US state or another country. Texas is too-played out. For some reason, England, Germany or even New Hampshire seem to work. Master the accents convincingly, and you've nailed them!Rule #90: Of course you dream of one day having children.Rule #91: Never dance to "What I Like About You." It's long past time to let that song go. Someone will request it at every wedding. Don't dance to it. No matter how hot the girl.Rule #92: Tell the bride's friends and family that you are family of the groom and visa-versa.Rule #93: Only take one car. You never know when you'll need to make a fast escape.Rule #94: Deep down, most people hate themselves. This knowledge is the key to most bedroom doors.Rule #95: Try not to show off on the dance floor. This means you Jeremy.Rule #96: Etiquette isn't old-fashioned. It's sexy.Rule #97: Catholic weddings: the classic dilemma: painfully long ceremony: horny girls.Rule #98: The newspaper Wedding Announcements are your racing form. Choose carefully.Rule #99: Be judicious with cologne. Citrus tones are best.Rule #100: Save the tuxes for "the big show" only.Rule #101: Avoid women who were psychology majors in college. There is no kind of woman more clingy and persistent than a psychologist investigating your story later on.Rule #102: No periwinkle colored ties, please.Rule #103: Always have an early "appointment" the next morning.Rule #104: Be well groomed and well-mannered.Rule #105: Never cockblock a fellow Crasher. Cockblocking an invited guest--okay.Rule #106: Eat plentiful, digest your food. You'll need the energy later.Rule #107: Know when to abandon ship if it ain't floating.Rule #108: Know your swing and salsa dancing. Girls love to get twisted around.Rule #109: Always carry an assortment of place cards to match any wedding design.Rule #110: Make sure your magic trick and balloon animal skills are not rusty. If the kids love it, the girls will too.Rule #111: Never have sex with bride or groom's mother even if she is the hottest bombshell at the wedding. Just control yourself.Rule #112: Have FUN! It's why you're there!Rule #113: Don't look for opportunities; make them.Rule #114: 3-4 months to wedding crash--funerals are year round!Rule #115: Never walk away from a crasher in a funny jacket. (The rule that Jeremy makes up to insult John)

好久没看这样的搞笑片了。

这么泡妞的男人值得去爱？

他们确实很有意思，可是他们的伎俩以及一开始对感情及性的玩弄，欺骗。

可以就这么原谅吗？

不久以前收到个同事转来的邮件，是个自称上班族的人写的，主要内容是怎样在钱柜吃到不要钱的自助餐，包括混进去的时间，随口提及的包房号码，以及蔬菜和水果怎么搭配等等都有建议，据说屡试屡中万无一失。

本来当笑话看的，直到有一周末和同事在钱柜大堂等位久不得的时候，忽然认真起来，觉得真应该鼓捣一伙人来吃穷这万恶的黑店。

最近新闻里也有曝光另一事，说到城市里有一群破落户，黄道吉日里经常去蹭别人家的婚宴，反正女方问就说是男方的亲友，男方问就说是女方的同学，至于新郎新娘的名字怎么搞到？

晕，酒店入口的大牌子上不是明明白白写着呢吗？

慢慢有了气候，被媒体以XX一族来称呼了。

当时就觉得这个题材很适合冯大导，盖因冯导总是对市井题材极为热衷，可惜冯导去忙《夜宴》了，夜宴，婚宴，一字之差。

这便宜就让美国人占了，原来美国也有这样的人，而且更狠，不光蹭吃，还敢打包（顺便将伴娘泡走），拍了这部《婚礼傲客》，还是今年票房的大赢家。

主角是两个不愁温饱的离婚律师，假期就合伙蹭婚礼，主要是为了泡妞，因为“婚礼上的单身女性触景伤情是完全失去抵抗能力的”，看看，多么精准的insight啊！

当然最后会回到真爱这个大俗结局上，美国片嘛，笑完哭完比中国电影还要主旋律。

导演David Dobkin，成龙《上海正午》Shanghai Knights 的那个导演。

两个男主演，Owen Wilson，《上海正午》里和成龙搭戏的那个金头发，小时候鼻子被人打断过的那个。

Vince Vaughn，现在很红的喜剧演员,《疯狂躲避球》和《史密斯夫妇》都有他。

两人搭档，胡说八道，可笑的地方还是挺多的。

看完《wedding crashers(婚礼傲客)》，还行。

但真正给我留下印象的是电影中的一首插曲。

是片子大约在67分钟左右时的由Coldplay演唱的《sparks》，收录在《Parachutes》专辑中。

很好听，推荐呀。

SPARKS 歌手：COLDPLAY 专辑：PARACHUTES Did I drive you away? I know what you'll say You say, "Oh, sing one we know" But I promise you this I'll always look out for you That's what I'll do I say "oh" I say "oh" My heart is yours It's you that I hold on to That's what I do And I know I was wrong But I won't let you down (Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, Yes I will, yes I will...) I say "oh" I cry "oh" Yeah I saw sparks Yeah I saw sparks And I saw sparks Yeah I saw sparks Sing it out La, la, la, la, oh... La, la, la, la, oh... http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/1414863917

有几个屎尿屁喷点其他就是一如既往的乏善可陈！

欧文威尔逊歪的古怪的鼻子瑞秋麦克亚当斯甜的醉人的微笑都不可谓是票房的保证，我想做到这一点后很多制片方都别无他求了！

反而艾拉费舍尔这清纯妹纸不经意的露点和小汽车同志的这种个性花瓶形象让我小小的惊喜了一下！

不过不得不说作为一部喜剧电影它的剧情设置上的细节还是看得出来花费很大心思的

近日忙中偷闲，观看了老师极力推荐的美国爱情喜剧《婚礼傲客》，结合老师课堂提到的中西方爱情观差异，我确实发现两者之间存在着不少差异，主要体现在自由、平等、开放这三个方面。

相信只要是对美剧或美国电影稍加对比的人都会观察到，“性”在美国人口中更多地被谈及，无论是工作上还是生活上，他们谈论“性”就像我们常说的“你吃了吗”一样轻松平常，“性话题”常作为调侃生活或工作的轻松剂，他们也不会因此有什么别的想法。

反观我们中国，性，在中国人的眼里一直是个忌讳的话题。

只要你跟一个女生谈及到“性”话题时，我想你收到的更多是“性骚扰”或“品行不端”诸如此类的评价。

为什么会出现这种强烈的对比呢？

我想在很大程度上是由于中西方不同的文化背景所决定的。

文化与爱情观有关吗？

自然有，而且关系紧密。

西方社会一向注重个人独立性的培养，因此，西方人的自我中心意识和独立意识极强，在个人主义极为流行的西方社会中，结婚只是两个个体的结合，而结婚的基础是爱情和两情相悦。

在他们眼中，没有爱情的婚姻是不道德的婚姻，低质量的婚姻。

追求真爱是绝大多数人最重要的婚姻目的。

在《婚礼傲客》这部电影中，从克莱尔和花花公子塞克的恋爱、订婚和悔婚可以看到：在财政部长威廉·克莱瑞的眼中，两个家族的联姻固然重要，但比家族利益更重要的是结婚的女儿克莱尔是否能够得到真正的幸福。

当他看到订婚的克莱尔闷闷不乐的时候，财政部长克莱瑞鼓励女儿说：你要勇敢追求你所想要的（When you know what you want, you know what you want.）。

在美国人的恋爱观里，如果恋爱的两人之间不存在爱情，或者说最终发现恋爱的对象不是心目中的MR.RIGHT，即使是提出分手也不会有什么不妥之处，爱情就是这样坦坦荡荡，合适就在一起，不合适就分开。

两性关系中的男女双方是自由的、平等的，他们对“性”持一种开放的态度，只要你情我愿，发生性关系是自然而然的事情，事后，男女双方也不会拿此事去要求对方为自己做些什么，一切自然而然，好像什么事都没发生一样。

从约翰和杰瑞米之前参加的各色婚礼中泡到的伴娘可以看到，他们对发生性关系是持相当开放态度的，相反，如果他们对“性”难以启齿，甚至谈“性”色变，我想像约翰和杰瑞米这样专门到婚礼猎艳的浪子也不会存在了，因为这是不被社会认可的。

此外，只要双方是真心相爱，门第、财产、汽车、房子这些都不是主要问题。

他们也不会对另一半有过高的要求，就拿杰瑞米和葛莉亚的恋爱来说，一个是浪子，是普普通通的工薪阶层，一个是财政部部长的女儿，是货真价实的千金大小姐。

身份的差异无法阻止他们为彼此所吸引，尽管刚开始杰瑞米只是想着逢场作戏，但后来真的爱上了葛莉亚，而且是爱的轰轰烈烈，即使杰瑞米被塞克揭发只是个到婚礼上混吃混喝专门勾搭伴娘的浪子，葛莉亚也不在意，最终，他们结婚了，并且得到了来自亲朋好友的祝福，而杰瑞米此前的欺骗也得到他们的原谅。

如果《婚礼傲客》这部电影还不足以说明美国人的爱情观，那我们可以通过一项数据调查来了解美国人的爱情观：在2010年的“情人节”那天，美国三大电视网之一的CBS台和美联社公布了它们联合做的最新民调，在问到如果你有下辈子，会不会还跟现在的配偶“结婚”时，10个美国人中，有9个说∶会！

是什么原因使得美国的夫妇们如此相爱？

在此我想借用《婚礼傲客》中约翰对克莱尔所说的一句话来表述：“他们相信真爱的力量，人们相信人间有爱才参加婚礼。

”这句话同样适用于结婚的男女：他们相信爱情的力量，相信建立在自由、平等、开放的爱情基础上再走进婚姻殿堂的恋人，是能够获得幸福的。

尽管在现实生活中，美国人的离婚率居高不下，但他们依然相信“真爱”是存在的，这一次没有找到，下一次可能就找到了。

虽然婚前同居、非婚同居十分普遍，但这并不表明美国人是在游戏婚姻，他们其实每一次都是很认真的爱着，相信“你是我的MR.RIGHT”。

这一点在美剧《老爸老妈的浪漫史》第一、第二部中你会有很深的体会：建筑师TED（泰德）一直很认真的在谈女朋友，他的目的很单纯，都是冲着结婚去的，在经历了几任女朋友后遇到了ROBIN（罗宾），他认识的第一天晚上就到她家表白，并且说了那句男女关系没发展到一定程度才说出口的“I LOVE YOU”，这使得罗宾大惊失色，因此她认为TED不尊重爱情，也不尊重她。

当然在剧中这只是一个小小的误会，但从中也可以看出美国男女青年对待爱情还是很严肃的，并不像我们身边某些人所说的“很随便”。

在青年男女关系中，“I LOVE YOU”是不能随随便便说出口的，在我们国家是这样，在美国，也是这样，这都反映了在对待爱情的态度是不分国界的，我们都是严肃而认真的。

当然了，光凭一部或几部影视作品，我们还不能断定美国式爱情观到底是怎样，然而作为思想文化载体的影视作品，或多或少在很大程度上都表达了当时社会的一定风气。

透过这些影视作品，我们能够看到的、接收到的未必就是真实的情况，可是这也具有一定的代表性。

不管怎么说，在美国式的爱情观中，自由、平等、开放是贯穿始终的三大主题。

身在不同社会文化背景下的我们，也不用急着羡慕他们那种爱情观。

回过头看看我们国家，看看我们现有文化背景下的爱情观，其实也有许多美好的地方。

尽管中西方文化差异较大，我们的爱情观差异也比较大，但这都不妨碍我们去相信爱情的美好，去相信爱情之所以存在，那是因为我们都深爱着对方，这种爱，超越物质高于世俗，只存在于两颗彼此爱慕对方的心之中……

专辑曲目：《7 and 7 Is 》 —— Love 《Aside 》—— The Weakerthans 《Blue Rondo a la Turk 》—— Dave Brubeck 《Everyone Says I Love You 》——Jyotsna Peng Ching-Hui 《I Hope Tomorrow Is Like Today 》—— Guster 《In the Summertime 》——Mungo Jerry 《Keep It Comin' Love 》——KC & The Sunshine Band 《Last Resort (Originally By Papa Roach)》 —— Richard Cheese 《Shout (Parts 1 and 2) 》—— The Isley Brothers 《Smudge 》——Adam's Farm 《Sparks 》——Coldplay 《Stay With Me》 —— Rod Stewart 《Sweetheart 》——Jont 《Woooh Ooooh》 —— Kevin Nash