拜见岳父大人

每次看到这些类型的片子，总是会下意识的比较美国家庭和中国家庭中父母子女的关系。

记得昨天看American pie时，为其中一个男孩的父亲对他谈论性的那段情节念念不忘，搞笑是一方面，可是也体现了他们的开明程度。

他在儿子去派对前说，你保证要做好安全措施。

哇咔咔……这在中国也是可能有的场景，毕竟现在社会已经开明太多了，可是总是感觉有那么一点不同。

其实我真的认为，每一个人都是独立自由的个体。

当帕姆的爸爸搂着她，虎视眈眈的瞪着可怜的Focker时，帕姆只是一个小女孩，在爸爸的羽翼下。

而当她和Focker两人在房间时，她又是一个正常的女人了。

幸好帕姆的父亲在妻子的劝说中，以及女儿的电话中醒悟过来。

他仍然是个好父亲。

帕姆对他父亲说过，我真的很爱你，但有时候你真的很可恨。

我希望这句话不是广大中国青少年们的心声。

for parents，手要松开一些。

觉得这片子其实不算是喜剧。

看到快最后时有点《当幸福来敲门》的感觉。

主人公只是个小人物，因为听女友说求婚先得征得岳父大人同意，于是费尽心机想博得岳父大人的好感，不料出师不利，开始了一个倒霉的周末。

看到他大闹飞机时，感觉很心酸。

其实只是处事方法与思维迥异，造成了夫婿之间的种种问题。

但这种问题恰恰最难解决。

看到在拘留地测谎的环节时，为岳父大人感到一点悲哀。

一个固执的老人，像他妻子说的：你觉得从来没人配得上你的Pam。

听到女儿的真情电话表白，最后又放下自己的固执寻回未婚婿。

用中国的一句老话就是可怜天下父母心。

其实如果刚开始就多一点宽容和理解，一切都不会越来越糟。

不知道是不是自己想复杂了。

感觉这片子主题其实挺深刻，虽然不知道导演有没有想往深刻里挖掘。

自己的一点想法，不知道有没有人有同感。

没共鸣的人可以路过了，别喷

男主角法克确实很爱女友才能忍受他家人一次次的羞辱。

本身他就到了一个陌生的环境里，不断去适应不断去迎合他们。

只是为了在岳丈面前留下好印象的话，他本身就没必要撒谎。

虽然只是善意的谎言，不是一个人精就问不出他岳丈那样的问题。

嗯嗯，美国电影里面真是什么都能调侃。

drug、sex、government，一点点的敏感大陆不早就pia飞了。

法克内心还是够强大，一个男护士的职业就引起大部分人的嘲讽，不是说三百六十行都出状元嘛，这也不是一样的，医生看不起护士，护士看不起护工。

可见有些世俗，不管国籍到处都一样...

是给没有拜见岳父母的经历的可怜人们的最好教科书除了名字噱头有点过分 电影带来的共鸣 联系着每个观者都有的类似经历

我是Robert de Nero的影迷，也很喜歡Ben Stiller，雖然他的經典搞笑方式有點定型了。

這部電影搞笑是沒有到瘋癲的程度，但是無論是Jack還是可憐的Gaylord Focker都凝聚了太多的笑點，讓人無法不大笑。

最精彩的部分是相見後的晚飯。

從Gｒｅｇ（Gaylord）的餐前禱告，到Jack的祭母詩都是金句，尤其是Greg評論說，Jack的詩是　"ｓｏ　ｔｏｕｃｈｉｎｇ　ａｎｄ　ｓｏ　ｍｕｃｈ　ｉｎｆｏｒｍａｔｉｏｎ．" 之後祖母的骨灰瓶摔碎，Jinx跳上去刨骨灰，後面就要應Pam媽媽說的，可憐的小貓還是喜歡刨貓砂小解。

無論大臉貓Pam怎麼吹鬍子瞪眼，Jinx都堅持尿到骨灰上面，拋回一個堅忍且帶幾分挑釁的表情，也許這個表情都是Jack一手訓練出來的。

有趣的是，Jack認定Jinx不能按馬桶的水閥，理由是它沒有拇指。

後面大姐的未來公公又強調了一次這個理論。

沒有拇指，所以不可能按沖水閥。

遺憾的是，後面慘劇發生越來越劇烈幽默性反倒變小了，到收尾的時候就有點大勢已去的意思。

不過好戲都要收場的，淡隱的結束方式也是合理的。

和想象中几步一梗的喜剧不同，属于温馨舒缓轻喜剧，实在想不明白这种节奏的片子能够登年度票房榜。

开头一段文艺范十足的女主影像也和后面的风格不搭。

唯一让我发笑的是快结束时的那几场机场戏。

德尼罗笑起来都“不怒自威”，演爱女儿吓女婿的岳父倒也有种反差的奇妙，可惜真没觉得岳父有多过分，这片应该叫《一个托运旅行箱印发的血案》。

直到看这部片子前，还从来没想到过女婿在入赘前拜见岳父会遇到这么多可怕的事情。

我们或许可以叫gred是世界上最倒霉的新郎了（当然也拜他父母给他起的那个倒霉名字所赐，gay& “fucker”。。。

真会想）在那个周末发生的一切巧合的如同《死神来了》上那些死神匪夷所思的安排一样，看着倒霉的冒泡的gred真的可以让人笑到岔气。

当然最后的结果是gred被逼到夺门而出，但是岳父大人在机场的那番变向的“求婚”确实全片最最温馨的时刻，做父亲的在将百般疼爱的女儿的手置于另一个将与她共度余生的另一个男人的手中时，那种感情可谓五味杂陈，幸福，欢喜，酸涩，当然还有一些吝惜。

所以，岳父大人所作的这一切也就不难理解了。

他用不太恰当的方式，想狠狠确定的就是是否能够信任的将女儿的幸福，自己精心保存了20多年的宝贝托付给别人。

最后gred和他的岳父终于可以和平的对坐斟饮，女儿的婚期也近了。

让我想到一句话：一切都没有意外，只是多了一些曲折而已，我们需要做的就是耐心的等待。

哥哥的婚期也近了，大龄男青年的婚姻问题终于没有成为社会负担。

祝他们幸福。

格雷戈（Ben Stiller 本•斯蒂勒 饰）准备向相恋多年的女友潘米拉（Teri Polo特莉•保罗 饰）求婚时，意外获悉了求婚成功成功与否，不仅要过美人关，更要过岳父关。

潘米拉的姐姐下个礼拜即将举行婚礼，届时格雷戈将和潘米拉一起回家参加婚礼。

小伙子心想这次正是讨好未来岳父，搞定岳父那关的大好时机。

格雷戈的名字在美语中很容易被理解成“同性恋•性交者”的意思，有着这么个稀奇古怪的名字，注定格雷戈拜见未来岳父之行不会如他所料那般顺利。

果然，当他们来到了潘米拉家时，格雷戈虽然表现得文质彬彬，但当他总是插话时力图幽默却效果相反时，未来岳父（罗伯特•德尼罗 Robert De Niro 饰）的脸色越来越难看。

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拜见岳父大人7.10男护士阿基打算向女友求婚，恰逢女友的妹妹的男友求婚成功，得知要搞定女友老爸才是关键。

女友老爸曾是中情局的心理测试师，去的路上阿基掉了行李，又在女友前男友家吃烧烤。

经历了在女友家的两天周末，阿基弄碎了祖母的骨灰盒，打伤妹妹的眼睛，弄丢猫咪，放火烧屋，搞砸了一切。

他真的能和女友成功走在一起吗？

穿着护士鞋，蹲下来换鞋子，打算求婚，背后的小孩拼字

The comic movie “Meet the Parents” is also a thought-provoking one. Instead of just keeping laughing and laughing, I think more about the main characters (Greg and Jack), prejudice, bias, the relations between children and parents, etc. Without a doubt, the comedy tries to tell us something serious in an easy way. 1. About PlotThis movie tells us a dramatic story of a couple of lovers and a visiting to the woman’s parents’ house in a humorous tone. The man whose name is Gaylord Greg Focker fell in love with the woman Pam Byrnes and he made up his mind to marry her. By listening to Pam and her sister’s phone call unintentionally, Greg realized that he should ask for her parents’ (especially her father’s) permission if he wants to marry her. So he prepared a lot for the visiting to her parents’ house. However, Rome was not built in one day. Greg lost his parking which contained the rings for the propose to Pam during the flight to Pam’s parents’ home which led to the following series of bad consequences. It was clear that Pam’s father Jack didn’t like Greg at all. Greg’s profession is nurse, which lead to Jack’s prejudice; Greg did not like cats, which make Jack unhappy because he was fond of them; Jack even suspected that Greg took drugs just because he said something like ‘puff the magic dragon’ carelessly.Fortunately, to meet viewers’ expectation, the film has a happy ending. At the end of the film, when Greg finally gave up and decided to leave, Pam’s father Jack was convinced and changed his attitude towards the lover of his daughter. Greg came to the family again and make the offer of marriage to Pam successfully. 2. About Gaylord Greg FockerI share the same opinion with most of audiences that I like Greg very much. Although he seems to be a little bit stupid and slow in response, he is a truly reliable young guy as a husband as well as a son-in-law. This conclusion can be drawn from the scene in the movie that when Pam’s father made him promise to obey the rules so that he could be maintained in the trust circle, he just kept it in mind and followed it carefully. What is the most important thing is that he loves Pam deeply, for he sacrificed a lot to try to gain appreciation from his future father-in-law. For instance, he got along as well as possible with the cat which he used to hate and received Jack’s polygraph test tamely (although it is unreasonable and impolite). Jack was very rude to Greg which we can observe from Jack’s behavior, like, he even did not allow Jack to use the toilet bowl. But Jack didn’t complain a word about these things because of his true love to Pam. What a frank and lovely man he is!3. About Jack ByrnesBesides Greg, I also have affection on the other main character Jack, the father of Pam. It is true that he is very rigid when judging his daughter’s boyfriend. However, I can tell that these were all resulted from his endless love towards his daughter. He fully prepared for a surprise for another daughter Deborah Byrnes’s wedding ceremony and cared a lot for Pam’s future life. He is like a mirror which reflects the depth of fathers’ love in the whole world. Jack also makes me think of my own father Simon who loves me very much. I am sure when I bring my boyfriend home one day in the future, he must be very picky too. Thinking about my father, I consider Jack a good father. I even feel pity for Jack for he would have to let his sweet daughter live with others in the future.4. About Prejudice and BiasIn the movie, I am deeply impressed by the prejudice and bias in U.S. The social classes are divided clearly in U.S., which are the upper classes, the middle classes and the lower classes. The higher-class people have a prejudice against the lower-class people, which can be seen in many American films, novels and news reports. The only thing I dislike in the comedy is the obvious prejudice Jack showed to Greg. He thought that Greg was not a successful and industrious man because he was only a nurse; he invited Pam’s ex Kevin Rawley to home deliberately to make Jack embarrassed; he even investigated Jack’s background through CIA. I feel very sorry for this kind of bias which commonly exists all over the world, not only in China. I just wonder that why a person who earn money to make a living is prejudiced against just because his/her occupation is not ‘good’ enough ?5. About Children and ParentsWhen talking about my opinion about the relationship between parents and their children, I’d like to talk about more my own experience and ideas. When I was living together with my parents, I always complain that they nearly controlled every aspect of my life and their rules almost extended to every corner of my own personal affairs. I was impatient about their suggestions or comments on my behaviors. However, as time goes by, as I grew up and apart my parents to attend the university, I miss them so much, even their strong controlling and rules. It is sort of weird, isn’t it? I finally know that it was a kind of true happiness when you have someone be around with you and care about you. So it is the love that combines our parents and us together firmly. Whatever they do and say is aimed to make us happy. Keep this in mind and cherish the time you are spending with your parents instead of regretting after losing them.